“Hi Guys”

I’d like to welcome you to  my site……I mean it when I say,  “It’s really great to have you here” .

I created this blog about Romantic Pick Up Lines because I wanted a place where guys, like you and me, can go when they need some dating advice or maybe just a bit of  support.

Dillion

I guess this is the page where I’m meant to tell you something about myself, aren’t I, so here goes….. lol…. “I try not to bore you too much, ok,,,promise”.

My names Gerald Dillion Ball, but all my friends call me Dillion. To look at, most people would say I’ve got a great life, both personally and in my career. I’m blessed with a terrific bunch of friends, a rewarding career and a love life most guys would ‘die for’.

But it hasn’t always been this way. Just 4 years ago my life was a mess.  Hannah, my fiance,  confessed to me she was seeing another guy from work, and in a “heart beat” my life was turned upside-down. The girl I’d fallen for in my 2nd year of College and was planning to marry was gone…..and it ‘hurt like hell’.

For months I was a ‘basket case’. I buried myself in work not wanting to go back to the apartment we’d once shared and all the while my emotions were ‘dashing’ between, longing , anger and despair. Play Station became ‘a very good friend’ , and I don’t mind admitting I even shed afew tears along the way. But fortunately, ‘help’ was at hand.

And that help arrived in the form of my good College friend, Alistair. If you can picture a loud, 6ft4 , brash sports agent then you can picture my buddy Alistair. Displaying his “usual subtlety”, Alistair made it his mission in life to ‘get me laid’ before he returned to London. Whenever I finished work he’d be there, just waiting to ‘drag’ me out to the clubs, encouraging me to approach any girl ‘with a heart beat’, but…….. there was one BIG problem !!

” I Sucked”………I had “No Game”………….I was nervous and didn’t know what to do or say when approaching women. I just couldn’t connect and the few times I did manage to make a connection it died within minutes. And sure enough this would quickly be followed by the inevitable , “Nice to meet you” or “I’ve got to go now”.

But, through all this I made an important discovery.

I realized I still wanted a relationship, even after what had happened with my ex-fiance.  And not just any relationship. I wanted a relationship full of passion, excitement and fun….. This was a major revelation to me but, remember, I still had a BIG problem….I was hopeless with women.

Fortunately, the answer was “steering me right in the face”. Every night I would see certain guys taking home the most amazing women. It would always be the same guys, night in / night out, while others like me would always trudge home to an empty apartment.

So the ‘million dollar’ question became, “What were they doing, that I wasn’t ? “…………

Over the next few months I studied these guys to discover their secret. We chatted, we laughed, we drunk together and  became really good friends. And along the way we had some great fun. They helped me , shared their secrets and encouraged me when I felt like chickening out.

I discovered the importance of having a positive attitude, how I should hold myself to project unbeatable confidence, some magical pick up lines, secret ways to flirt {that she’ll love} and how to ‘take it to the next level’ and build amazing rapport.

During the last 4 years, since beginning this journey, I’ve had an  ‘absolute blast’. I think it’s important to have fun along the way. “Try not to take things too seriously because it is meant to be fun. And one things for sure. If you’re anything like me, then guys, there’s going to be time when you strike out”. It only happens to me very rarely now days, the last time would have probably been about 7 months ago before I started seeing my present girlfriend but when it does don’t let it discourage you. Don’t take it too seriously. Have a chuckle about it and move on because the reward are ’so worth it’.

Finally, I’m a strong believer that you should do what feels ‘right’ for you. What I mean by this, is that there are tonnes of  ‘methods” out there that you can use. Some are going to feel “right” for you, others won’t. For example, I think developing the right attitude and confidence are essential but for me acting like a ‘cocky jerk’ or a  ‘bad boy’, just doesn’t work. In contrast, I’ve got mates who swear by it………..so use what’s right for YOU, try different techniques, have fun and when you find something you’re comfortable with……..go with it and master it.

Before I go……. a word of warning.

You’ll probably notice I have a weakness for pickup lines, particularly romantic pick up lines. Along with confidence and  flirting, the one ’sure thing’ I’ve learnt is there is nothing better than a good romantic pick up line. So guys, I’d love to hear them. If you have any sweet romantic pick up lines ,send them in. It’s a hobby of mine , so “come on”….I want to hear your greatest pick up lines , your cheesiest pick up lines, in fact… any romantic lines that work.

Enjoy the site and please , feel free to leave a comment or contact me.

Take Care

Dillion