Today I want to talk about romantic gestures and romantic pickup lines, because these simple little gestures can help tremendously with something alot of us struggle with.
In most relationships there usually comes a time when we wish to take it to the ‘next level’. We want to let our girlfriend know how special she is. We want to let her know how much we care. But this is where the problems start because for alot of us this doesn’t come naturally. This doesn’t mean we’re unromantic. In fact I believe the opposite to be true. It’s just that alot of guys don’t know how to ‘be romantic’. We don’t know how to express this side of ourselves.
So lets look at a typical scenario and see how you can easily become the ‘Master of Romantic Gestures’. In no time, you’ll be the guy she’s telling all her friends about and in no time you’ll be the guy who’s creating special moments for her that she’ll remember for ever.
Generally speaking, the time for romantic gestures comes afew weeks into a relationship. Our “first night” romantic pickup lines have worked and our relationship is now beginning to flourish. We can shelve the flirty pick up lines and now move onto to something far more rewarding…..namely, introducing romance into the relationship.
So how should we do this ?
If you had asked me a couple of years ago I would have told you how I liked to surprise my girlfriend with afew ‘ sweet romantic lines ‘, but to be honest this really ‘wasn’t me’. Fortunately, it was around this time that I came across a short book by a guy named Micheal Webb. Since then he has gone on to establish himself as one of America’s leading relationship expert, appearing on shows like Oprah Winfrey and writing a whole host of best sellers.
In his book, ” 101 Romantic Ideas “, Micheal reveals some real gems. It’s written for guys , by a guy and is “packed” full of ideas for injecting a bit of romance into your relationship. So , if you’d like ‘a hand’ in this area, here’s a couple of ideas from Micheal himself…..enjoy !!
1. Write a note saying:
“I thought of you today, you bring a smile to my heart”
Then be sure to leave the note somewhere she is sure to find it.
2. If your girlfriend is going on a trip, pack a small present in the corner of her case that she will find when she’s away.
3. When your girlfriend reminisces about things, listen carefully and jot it down. For example, perhaps she talks about the ice cream she got from a particular shop when she was a little girl.
Then when a special occasion comes along, look at your list of things that your partner talks about and try to recreate one of them, for example, visit the shop and buy a tub of ice cream making sure that the name of the shop is on the
container.
4. Go for a walk on the beach. Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.
Guys, I hope you enjoyed these. In all honesty romantic gestures beat the sweetest pick up lines ‘hands down’ at this stage of the relationship. It only takes a little bit of effort and you’ve created a ’shared moment’ that she’ll remember for the rest of her life.
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