Hi guys…
Today’s post revolves around an article I discovered a few days ago. It’s well worth reading because it addresses some of the most common “dangers” when using romantic pick up lines. As most of you know, I’m a massive fan of romantic pick up lines. They raise a girl’s interest and I know how incredibly well they can work, but……..
…….that’s only if you use them “correctly“.
Use them incorrectly and you run the risk of looking like a ‘fool’, or even worse, a ’sleaze’…. I’t’s an interesting read but I’ve got to admit that I don’t fully agree with his 2nd point concerning originality. From my experience your romantic pick up lines don’t really need to be original, just so long as they have a unique twist….so enjoy!!
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Most romantic pick up lines you find out there do not work from the simple reason they are a little too cheesy. Other romantic pick up lines can not help you too much because of their sexual overtones.
To have a successful rate on your quest, you should follow some important rules such as:
1. Address your pick up line in form of a question. When you use it like this it fosters conversation.
2. Use original romantic pick up lines. Imagine that are using some pick up line that you heard on TV or on radio. Do you think you were the only one that actually heard it? Imagine what happens when the girl you are trying to pick up laughs in your face because of how common the pick up line you’re trying to use is.
3. Try to slip in a little joke or a smile when you use your romantic pick up lines. You have to agree that it would be nice for the girl to actually smile at you instead of slap you in the face.
Whatever relationships you are in searching for, the delivery of the romantic pick up lines is most important. Practice could not do you any harm. You can actually put yourself in front of a mirror and pay attention to your body language when you practice.
You body language is as important as the romantic pick up line itself. Most of the communication experts agree on the fact that what you say in a face-to-face dialogue counts for just twenty percent of the perceived message. This means that the girl will also pay much attention to your facial expression and the tone of you voice. Keeping this in mind, if you can succeed in delivering your romantic pick up line with a face expression that radiates confidence, chances are that the next morning you will eat breakfast at her house!
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“Hey… I never promised it was the “world’s best article”, did I….LOL…but it does raise a number of points. Now, I’m sure alot of you are probably thinking most of it is just ‘common sense’, and you’d be right.
Firstly, you need to appreciate there’s only a very ‘fine line’ between a flirty pick up line and a sleazy pick up line so guys please be careful. But generally speaking, a flirty romantic pick up line has a degree of playfulness and innocence that will make the girl laugh, instead of ‘cringe’…..she shouldn’t feel threatened!
Secondly,,,,if you want to use original pick up lines, “that’s great”…..but personally I prefer using romantic pick up lines that have already been tested, then I give them a unique twist. This way your romantic pick up lines have the ‘best of both worlds’……they’re proven and they’re unique!
It’s really the 3rd point that is most crucial.
We all know how important confidence is….right? But unfortunately, this can be differcult to get right and the reasons for this are two-fold!
Most courses that teach guys how to use romantic pick up lines successfully, focus on building confidence. This is ideal for most of us as it’s usually what is needed. Very few courses, however, pay any attention to the problem of “over confidence”……and for some, it can actually be a real problem.
Romantic pick up lines, delivered with a healthy degree of confidence work great. But problems arise, however, when they verge on being arrogant. I won’t go into too much detail on this subject today but you need to be aware of it.
In fact, what I will do is dedicate the next post to this problem because it’s a trap most of us fall into every now and then without being aware of it, so guys, “keep your eyes peeled” for the next post that will teach you how to use romantic pick up lines successfully, without ‘turning her off’.
Take care guys……..and get out there and practice your romantic pick up lines !!
All the best Dillion
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